i know this is a bit long..
but please translate or just summarize the text written esp. the title
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停機1年 吳建豪嚴守色戒
吳建豪受洗成為基督徒後,他說有如迷途羔羊重新找到人生的方向。去年3月他向上帝許諾戒色1年,1年來果然沒有交女朋友;下個月即將屆滿,他的心情很high,不是因為可以開始縱慾,而是對自己的實踐力感到滿意,打算繼續和上帝續約。
吳建豪二○○七年十一月在引領陳冠希歸信上帝的Jason Ma(馬正遠)牧師引領下,受洗為基督徒。去年三月,他宣告戒色,因為擔心無法持之以恆,所以許願一年為期。初期,碰到辣妹投懷送抱,他靠心裡猛念「阿們」忍住誘惑;現在他以無慾自豪,愛情觀完全大逆轉。
他形容此刻心情:「有一點興奮,但不是『嘿嘿!可以去把妹了』,而是發現原來一年過得那麼快。」輕易達成目標,讓他更自信要繼續禁慾,直到結婚。
婚後才要性關係
不同的是,三十而立的他打算開始尋覓人生伴侶。過年期間,朱孝天與林熙蕾驚傳婚訊,他由報紙得知消息,雖然沒有開口過問此事,但更堅定了想要結婚生子的念頭。「我不會受朋友影響而想婚,而是我本來就想談戀愛。」
而他想談戀愛的主要原因,竟是為了早日生小孩,「我太喜歡小孩子。我不希望等到四十歲才生孩子,這樣我六十歲他(孩子)才二十歲。」他語出驚人說:「我想生六個孩子。」語畢,他便從心目中理想的適婚年齡三十五歲開始推算,他一邊數手指頭說:「哇!如果從三十五歲開始生,生完我已經四十一歲了啊!」(大笑)。
吳建豪曾和徐若瑄、蕭亞軒、大S、寶兒傳緋聞,對象清一色是漂亮辣妹,他頗認同「男人都是下半身思考」這個論點,「我之前也是下半身思考,一遇到喜歡的人,馬上掉進去(笑著搖頭)。」但觀念的扭轉只在一念之間,現在他則認為,男女朋友交往應該按部就班
「做愛這件事遲早會發生,為什麼要放在前面?」他反問,如果心靈無法契合,最後還是一場空,為什麼不先從朋友做起,再當好朋友,等到結婚之後再發生性關係?
女友須是基督徒
談擇偶條件,他一改以往緋聞女友都是辣妹的偏好,表示另一半必須是基督徒,「因為我的心裡上帝第一、女友第二,另一半也要把上帝排第一,我第二,兩人才能平衡。」而且「一個會為我禱告的女生,我覺得她更性感。」
被問及身旁是否已出現這樣的對象?他坦言:「我不知道。」然後解釋:「有時會覺得這個不錯,那個也不錯,但我會先交朋友。」言下之意,他的基督教女性朋友還不少哩!
吳建豪的改變不止愛情觀,他戒菸戒酒,去夜店只喝可樂,和朋友哈拉一下就快閃回家。哪兒來的意志力?「剛開始我為家人朋友禁酒四十天,到期那天,我真的沒有那個心態想要喝,到現在已經三個月了。」
感召家人信上帝
他每天起床第一件事是禱告四十分鐘至一小時,再出門上健身房、到工作室開會、籌備新專輯事宜,經紀人Katie看他:「信教之後,他本質上沒有改變太多,但約束力更強了,很多事說到做到。」
他三句話不離上帝,Katie說:「他會一直講,身邊的人多少都被感染;星期天他會約二十幾個朋友去工作室討論,分享生活中的事。」原本全家人都是虔誠的佛教徒,受他影響全都改信上帝。
二○○八年因經濟海嘯景氣跌谷底,對很多人來說,是最難過的一年,對吳建豪而言,卻是最輝煌的一年。他簽約新東家、投資夜店、拍電影及做原聲帶、也設計飾品,外界看他做了很多事情,成果豐碩,但他說:「因為我信仰了上帝,我的人生完全改變,去年是我最棒的一年。」
二○○九年他的目標不是唱片、電影大賣,而是「跟上帝更接近一點。」他連說了二次。
十誡:不可姦淫
對於基督教徒禁止婚前性行為,台北真理堂傳道人周宏昌表示,舊約聖經「十誡」裡的第七誡「不可姦淫」及第十誡「不可貪戀別人的妻子」,及新約聖經裡提到的「聖潔」為例,都是與性行為有關的規範。以基督教的教義來說,並沒有定義禁止「婚前」性行為,而是所有「婚姻外」的性行為都不被神所讚美。
周宏昌進一步說明,對上帝及基督教來說,並不會對性行為這件事設下任何規範,但教義裡的確提到,性行為是一種禮物,也受到大家的祝福;但所有婚姻之外的性行為,都被認為是不潔的行為,對上帝及自己都是不尊重的態度。
Answer: I'm sorry if this translation seems a bit holistic (I'm not Chinese!):
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